When Is It OK To Message A Tradesman?
Would you message a tradesman at 12:15am?
A recent news story sparked a lively debate here at Cheap Van Insurance HQ.
It all started when a woman named Evandra sent a late-night text to a carpet fitter.
Specifically, she messaged him at 12:15am.
She simply asked for a quote.
However, the fitter wasn’t impressed.
He replied quickly—and bluntly.
Naturally, this raised eyebrows and questions in equal measure.
Is A Tradesman Ever Really “Off Duty”?
If you advertise online and share your number, are you expected to respond at all hours?
On one hand, some say yes. Business is business, after all.
However, others argue that everyone deserves time to rest.
After all, running a small business doesn’t mean you’re available 24/7.
So, where’s the line?
Was The Late-Night Message To A Tradesman Too Much?
Many people felt that if she had emailed, it wouldn’t have mattered.
In contrast, texting felt more intrusive.
It was late.
Moreover, she sent a direct message, not a passive query.
Some believed it crossed a boundary of basic privacy.
Still, others disagreed.
They felt a text was fair game—as long as she didn’t expect an immediate reply.
In their view, the real issue was how the fitter reacted, not the timing of the message.
Phones, Families, And Flexibility
Let’s not forget—some people can’t switch their phones off at night.
For example, parents or carers may need to stay connected in case of emergencies.
Even so, many people do put their phones on silent.
Therefore, what feels reasonable to one person may feel disruptive to another.
As a result, it’s tricky to say whether her message was truly inconsiderate.
The Always-On Culture: A Modern Dilemma
In today’s world, we’re used to sending messages at all hours.
Before bed, we fire off emails, book appointments, and chase things up.
However, just because we can, doesn’t mean we should.
After all, being reachable 24/7 comes at a cost.
Especially for sole traders who don’t have a team to lean on.
Respecting boundaries matters—now more than ever.
The Office Vote: A Split Decision
At Cheap Van Insurance, we took a poll.
Interestingly, 60% said she was out of line.
The remaining 40% disagreed.
Clearly, opinions are divided.
This story might seem small, but it taps into something bigger.
Where do we draw the line between accessibility and overstepping?
Our Advice: Boundaries Benefit Everyone
If you’re a tradesperson:
Invest in a separate work phone.
Then, switch it off after hours and enjoy your downtime.
Clients can wait till morning.
If you’re a customer:
Be mindful.
Just because someone shares their number doesn’t mean they’re available 24/7.
In short, a little respect goes a long way.
After all, small businesses are run by real people—not robots.
